Jeanette WintersonI have sometimes sacrificed freedom in order to belong, but more often I have given up all hope of belonging.
About This Quote
To belong is to be a part of something bigger than yourself and for that reason, it is important to be part of an accepting group. Sometimes, even if we don’t choose to do so, we must sacrifice our freedom in order to belong. The decision to do so is never easy because we see the results of such choices in our lives. For instance, there are times when we need to make sacrifices in order to prevent others from getting hurt or getting themselves into trouble.
There are also times when we know what is best for everyone and we let them make their own decisions. But it is always better if we can find a way to belong and that’s what this quote is all about: finding a way to belong and letting others make their own choices.
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